Tuesday, 20 November 2012

Rantings On Life And Suicide....

In the past, everyone seemed to fear death but in the present days, death seems to be a trend! An easy access out of problems in life. Every single day I hear about people committing suicide. At least 95% of them are teenagers. This life that you have right now is given to you by God, you certainly have no right to take it away just like that. Your life is precious, why throw it away just like that? Why throw away life, something that you can never get back over some problem that can be resolved? I know that the main cause as to why teenage commit suicide is because of bullying. I definitely have to agree that no one deserves to be bullied but death is just not the way out. The problem of being bullied can be resolved. Talk to someone about it. When you know that there's something that you can't cope and it is getting the best of you, find someone to talk to about it. It could be your mum, dad, older sibling, uncle, aunt, older cousin, teacher, friend or better yet talk to a counsellor. A time in life, everyone would have to go through being bullied by others but suicide is NEVER the answer. I do understand how for some of you,  you have no one to talk to or have already tried every means of communication possible and yet in doesn't work and the only choice is to commit suicide. To all of you who are in this situation, please stop what you're doing, sit down and have a good think. It's not worth it. You are worth so much more than that. Once you have reach this blind route, it is best to seek God. God loves you more than anything. God will not push you away no matter what. He'll love you under any circumstances and when people are cruel to you, call upon God and he'll be there for you. He'll be your friend. Never give up on yourself. You're all too precious to lose. Another thing that is quite commonly occuring in the teenage life is self harming. Self harming is a way to relieve pain when nothing goes right in their life. It happens mostly among teens because us teen sometimes do feel as if no one in this world understand us. And so when a problem arises and there's no one that they can talk to that fully understands them, it may result into them slitting their wrist as a sign to relieve themselves from the pain in life. Society needs to understand that self harming is no playing matter. It is a serious issue. So please don't harm your beautiful body. You're worth so much more than that. You're like a special jewel. There's only one like you. No one can ever replace you or be you. To those who know of anyone who is self harming, don't just leave the matter alone. Please get help. Your body is beautiful, please don't harm it in any way possible. Once someone gains nothing from self harming as they are so used to it, their next option could be suicide. We need to stop this from happening. I don't want any more lives to be lost in such a way. Just think of this, somehow or another, the problems in your life can be solved but once you decide to take away your life, you can never get it back. You certainly cannot revive yourself from being dead. Think about it for a second. All of you are precious, all of you are gorgeous. You're all priceless gems. Don't let anything or anyone get to you. Don't let words bring you down. Yes words can cut like knives but it's up to you to let it get to you or not. All the waters in the ocean could never sink a ship unless it gets inside. Likewise, all the pressures and problems in life can never hurt you unless you let them in. If anyone of you are thinking about suicide or are already suicidal and want to stop, please get some help. Talk to someone about it or seek God if you feel like no one gets you. God will always understand you and the situation that you're going through or if you want you can come talk to me. Just tweet me if you need someone to talk to and I'll be your listening ears. Suicide is never the answer no matter how hard things can get. It makes me really sad to see how many beautiful people are taking their lives away just like that. Please don't do this to yourself. You're worth more than that. You're worth more than anything. Please stop.

And to all you people out there who are the ones hating on others and bullying others, please stop. Try putting yourself in their shoes instead. Believe me, you won't even survive one day being a victim. Being a bully is nothing great. You're not going to get an award or do anyone good not even yourself for being a bully. So if you have ever bullied anyone, please realise that what you have done could have caused someone to think thay death is their only solution out. Please stop and apologize. A sincere apology can do great things to a wounded heart. To all those who have witnessed someone getting bullied, please inform someone so they can help that person to stop bullying others. You can get accomplishment and the feeling of greatness from doing other things. You can gain the feeling of happiness from making other happy. Bullies, please own up and admit your wrong doings. No one can help you until you yourself admit you have a problem. And I just really want to help. So please, admit that you have a problem with bullying and we can help you out. All this bullying in the world needs to stop. No one deserves to be bullied. No one! 


Each and everyone of you are gorgeous and special in your own way. You are all precious gems. Stop suicides. Stop being suicidal. Stop bullying. I love all of you <3


Written by:
Audrey J
Twitter: @Imprfct_AudreyJ

Sunday, 11 November 2012

Happy birthday dear brother!

Several fights, numerous arguments,
Has only gotten us closer sans detachments.

My pillar of strength you have always been,
With your presence, my smile's evergreen.
Today on your birthday, sending you warm wishes,
From your sister who loves you to the moon and back.
Today I smile because it's your birthday,
A very special day that should be celebrated in every glorious way.

HAPPY BIRTHDAY DEAR BROTHER OF MINE


You're not just my brother but you're my best friend. You're always there for me whenever I needed you. You never once left my side no matter how annoying I can get. I don't need words to tell me that you love me cause your actions already tells me that you do. You're my gem, my treasure, my only brother whom I love so much. Though distance may lie between us, we're never far apart because love is not measured by distance, it is measured by the heart. Words can't comprehend how much you mean to me because there's not enough letters in the world for me to express how thankful I am to have you. Today is your special day, I may not there with you but I am forever and always close at heart. I love you so much. Happy birthday Tim <3


written by Audrey Johnson